Children are naturally curious and have various ways of expressing themselves, they point they stare, they ask embarrassing questions, but what can you do with them it's curiosity taking over.
At some time in their lives they will either see someone in the road, at the shops, meet someone at school or have a family member who has a form of disability.
What lens do we give them?
As adults we have had an opportunity to see the world and reflect on the things stored in our brain along the way.
The way we interpret these things are quite likely to impact our children's viewpoints also.
We have a responsibility to help them understand and fuel that desire to learn, be interested even when the questions don't stop. Sometimes it is easy to pass on a viewpoint without thinking about the long term effects.
However like the lens in a camera that may need wiping and adjusting from time to time to see things clearer and less blurry, we too can help children have the correct focus in understanding more about disabilities.
Discussing disability what can we do?
There are many story books available and many television programs being aired which include a disabled character to help children understand their society better. Even some popular dolls now have a disabled friend as part of the collection.
How about when it is on the spot what are some steps that can be taken? Have a look below, this is by no means a fixed, limited or step by step guide but does have some very useful tips on having the discussion:
Have the discussion, yes do not shy away from it. It may have been done in the past but now we have a great opportunity with many resources to support the topics.
Using a wheelchair or walking differently does not also mean the person is not mentally able.
Use appropriate words that make someone who has a disability feel comfortable and not discriminated against.
We are not always able to see all disabilities some are hidden.
Another child displaying behaviour they are not used to, does not mean that child is bad.
It may be a good idea to explain some similarities in things they like to do and the child you are have the conversation with.
Do not make answers up about a disability, research it and you will be able to give a clearer explanation.
No matter what background or culture you come from, there are always opportunities to open yourself and teach your children about exploring and understanding disabilities. Just like everyone else someone with a disability only wants to live their life and be part of society without discrimination.
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